i posted a question on facebook and, surprise surprise my cousin with three sons wants to keep them out of dresses and is excited to have me at their “very male birthday party.” i dont understand this kind of thinking, i honestly don’t, society made up these fucking norms, why are you placing your sons into it? why must you buy them everything with trucks and footballs covering the surface? why can’t they like what they like? are you going to encourage them to act a certain way as well? why do you think boys don’t know how to fucking deal with their feelings and desires? this is why we have so many serial killers—gah, i want all three boys live with me instead.